Tuesday, November 30, 2010

40 Year Plan

As mentioned in my last (somewhat poorly written) post (I don't promise this one will be any better), I've always been fascinated with law.  After flirting with court reporting, I eventually became a legal assistant - working in franchise law, securities and eventually contracts.  Thinking about the legal impact of decisions has always been a knack...some might call it a sickness - depends upon your opinion of law practice.

So, I devised my "40 year plan."  Being a legal assistant wasn't enough - I wanted to be an attorney (commence eye rolling and attorney jokes now)!  And my goal was to become a lawyer by the time I turned 40.  Well...that was MY plan anyway.

I attended University of Oklahoma, and then University of Phoenix, dropping credits into the bucket that was to become my undergraduate degree - with my eyes set on University of Tulsa for my law degree.  It seemed like it was nearly impossible, with many years of school to make up for, but I was determined.

Then, one day, my entire plan was derailed.  My dreams were dashed.  Several factors entered into my decision to leave school (which is between me and my future highly-paid therapist).  I was destined to live my life with people asking me "Where did you get your degree," and my sad little answer being "Well, I went to OU..." knowing in my heart that I could never answer "I received my undergrad from OU and my JD from TU."

Don't you feel sorry for me?  (Ok, I know, not really.)  Now the good part.  Romans 8:28 says: 
"And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." 
God lead me into one of the most amazing places - His Kingdom!

Now that I wasn't attending class and studying, I had extra time on my hands.  What to do...what to do?  Well...maybe I'll start volunteering in the youth program at church.  I mean, that place is a hotbed of liability issues - they could sure use someone to enforce the rules!  I had absolutely no idea what God was going to do, and where He was going to lead me in my 40 year plan! 

He called me according to His purpose and has filled me more than I could ever have imagined - and it all happened when I turned 40.  Stay tuned...

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Court Reporter

So...awhile back I wrote about college and mentioned my stint in court reporting school.  I thought I'd explain a bit - let you in on a little "Robyn History."

My last year in high school, I took all business classes, was Vice President of Future Business Leaders of America, and was even awarded the Best Business Student of theYear award.  I took all of this with a grain of salt - in fact, I wasn't even going to go to the awards ceremony.  I was scheduled to work at Shakey's Pizza Parlor the night of the ceremony, so I didn't even think twice...that is until my school called my mom wondering why I wasn't going to be there to accept the award, she then called my work, and next thing I know I'm putting on a dress and sitting up on stage. 

So, my senior the high school counselor died tragically.  As a high school kid, this seemed to have little impact on me.  I mean, I'd never actually met the counselor (I was never in trouble, was a good student, and felt there wasn't a need).  But I now realize how this changed my life withouth even knowing it.  Of course, the school system assigned us a new counselor, she called me in and asked me my plans for college.  I looked at her with glazed eyes and said "I don't know.  My parents can't afford college."  That was pretty much the end of that.

One day, in one of my business classes, a man came in from a local court reporting trade school.  He explained how we could make a ton of money while sitting in a courtroom reporting all that's being said.  Sounds easy enough...I'm in!  I have always been intrigued by the law, this is a 2 year school, and sounds tons easier than the 8 years it would take to become a lawyer.  Sign me up! 

Now, how am I going to pay for it?  Turns out, my parents made too much money for me to get financial assistance. I was left to fend for myself, and as we learned earlier, I tend to take the path of least resistance.  So, I registered for school, signed a promissory note and began making payments of $150/ month...at 18% interest!  I was officially a student of court reporting school.

Moving right along...the court reporting itself was easy for me.  I was an fast typist (110 wpm on an old-fashioned typewriter), and had taken 3rd place at State for Shorthand (yep, another fascinating tidbit of info), so using this crazy machine came easy.  The classes were a little more difficult - I actually had to study.  But, one by one, I managed to get through them.  Then, about a year and a half into it...I realized something huge.  I have a PERSONALITY!  Court reporters (in my twisted thoughts at the time) don't have personalities, they just sit, take down the words and go home.  They never get to talk, never get to ask questions, and have to bow down to the whims of the judge and attorneys.  Forget that...I can no longer keep my mouth shut.  So, I quit.  Yep, about 3 months from graduating, I quit.

Disclaimer:  Court reports DO have personalities, and are valuable not only in the field of law, but also for closed captioning - I just don't have the personality to be a court reporter.

Where does this story go?  What's the moral, you ask?  Not much...just historical.  Although there are two tidbits you can take away:  (1) Don't let a "no" stop you from changing your future like I did when we didn't get financial help for college - I'm certain there were ways to get it funded, I just didn't pursue them fully enough; and (2) Never sign a promissory note for 18% interest - you'll be paying on it for years to come.

Oh...and if you need to know what a typewriter was, you can google "ancient artifacts from the mid to late 1900's."

Monday, November 1, 2010

"New" Computer

Freedom!  Freedom is here!  Okay, I already had freedom through my savior, Jesus Christ, but I just recently received a gift that returned a freedom to me that I'd forgotten.

One our our AMAZING volunteers purchased a new computer and was looking for someone to give her old computer to.  When I was asked upon whom could she bestow this incredible gift, I sheepishly said "me."  Sheepishly, because I really don't like asking for things - I mean, I'm sure there's someone who needs it more than me, right?  Well, truth is, for 2+ years I've been using my work laptop for all my computing needs (for which I am EXTREMELY grateful).  This means that my high schooler can only use a computer for homework after I get home (which is sometimes quite late).  It also means that I can't download any software to the laptop for personal use.  Oh the horror!  So, I could really use a computer at home.

So, I accepted the gift with a huge amount of gratitude (although I did snoop around and see if there's anyone else that needed it more than me first)! 

Now, Josh is able to do his homework whenever he's home (thus taking away one more excuse for procrastinating).  And...here's the freedom...I'm able to use Quicken to balance my checkbook!  Yes, this is HUGE!  For 2+ years I've been semi-balancing the old-fashioned way, with varying degrees of success.  But today, I balanced the checkbook to my online account, scheduled transactions, and know to-the-penny how much money I will have once all of my bills have cleared.  Hallelujah!

Too bad this beautiful shiny computin' machine can't make those who owe me money pay up, so that my checkbook register looks more black than red.  Maybe someday...